{"id":1537,"date":"2018-05-25T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-05-25T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/apologetics\/resource\/how-im-teaching-my-6yearolds-to-be-critical-thinkers-2\/"},"modified":"2022-06-17T09:33:25","modified_gmt":"2022-06-17T13:33:25","slug":"how-im-teaching-my-6yearolds-to-be-critical-thinkers","status":"publish","type":"resource","link":"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/apologetics\/resource\/how-im-teaching-my-6yearolds-to-be-critical-thinkers\/","title":{"rendered":"How I\u2019m Teaching My 6-year-olds to Be Critical Thinkers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, someone left the following comment on my blog post, &#8220;How Secular Family Values Stack Up: A Response&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is your interpretation of Christianity, but not the only one. Any number of versions of God \u2014 or Christ \u2014 may exist, and not all will not punish people based on their religion. The best objective, then, is to raise your children to be thoughtful, responsible, and loving.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Allow me to be blunt for a moment: This is horribly bad logic. And that has nothing to do with the fact we\u2019re talking about Christianity. I\u2019m strictly talking about the thought process, which basically goes like this: If there are varying beliefs on what is true, and some of those beliefs have unpleasant implications, then we shouldn\u2019t teach our kids any of them because reality might not be as bad as some people believe.<\/p>\n<p>How about this instead: If you\u2019re an atheist, teach your kids atheism because, and only because, you believe it\u2019s the true picture of reality. Not because people believe a variety of things about God. There\u2019s just no logical connection. If you\u2019re Christian, teach your kids Christianity because, and only because, you believe it\u2019s the true picture of reality. Not because you were raised a Christian, not because it makes your kids behave better, and not because it\u2019s comfortable.<\/p>\n<p>I want to be absolutely clear that this is not an issue of Christian reason vs. atheist reason. Anyone can be guilty of using bad logic for their beliefs. Just this week, I saw a Christian tell an atheist that she should raise her kids as Christians because it will bring their family closer together.<\/p>\n<p>No, no, and no.<\/p>\n<p>One of the greatest gifts we can give our kids is the gift of how to think well. Because I\u2019ve seen so much bad logic online lately, and have heard so much bad logic from my own kids, I decided to take some very specific action with them a couple of weeks ago. The results have been amazing. Here\u2019s what we did.<\/p>\n<h3><span data-redactor-tag=\"strong\">Teaching critical thinking at home<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>I sat my kids down for a little powwow (two 6-year-olds and a 4-year-old). The conversation went something like this:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve been noticing lately that you guys are having some trouble drawing the right conclusions about things. I want to help you to make better conclusions. This is something that will help you the rest of your life. It\u2019s super important to be able to know how to think well, and even a lot of adults have trouble with it! When we draw appropriate conclusions, that\u2019s called good logic. When we draw inappropriate conclusions, that\u2019s called bad logic. Let me give you some examples so you can see what I mean.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I then gave them some easy examples to think through, and had them explain to me\u00a0<em data-redactor-tag=\"em\">why<\/em>\u00a0each example showed good or bad logic (getting them to verbalize the \u201cwhy\u201d is hugely important). They absolutely\u00a0<em data-redactor-tag=\"em\">loved<\/em>the challenge. Here are a few examples I used:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cI can see it\u2019s sunny outside. That means it will definitely not rain today.\u201d (Bad logic: Just because the weather is sunny right now, doesn\u2019t mean the weather couldn\u2019t change later.)<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI am too tired to put you guys to bed tonight. That means I don\u2019t need to do it.\u201d (Bad logic: Just because you don\u2019t want to do something doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t need to do it or shouldn\u2019t do it.)<\/li>\n<li>\u201cThere\u2019s ice on the sidewalk. That means I shouldn\u2019t run on it.\u201d (Good logic: We know that ice is slippery, and we might fall if we run. We have good reason to be careful.)<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWe can\u2019t see God. That means He must not exist.\u201d (Bad logic: Just because you can\u2019t see something with your eyes doesn\u2019t mean it isn\u2019t real. We need to look for evidence that demonstrates the reality of unseen things.)<\/li>\n<li>\u201cI don\u2019t understand why God lets a lot of bad things happen in the world. That means He doesn\u2019t exist.\u201d (Bad logic: We don\u2019t have God\u2019s perfect knowledge of the world, so there will necessarily be things we don\u2019t understand. Whether or not we understand all of His ways says nothing about whether or not He exists.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I\u2019m pretty sure the kids didn\u2019t understand what logic meant from my little preamble, because it\u2019s hard to describe this in terms that 6-year-olds (much less a 4-year-old) can understand. But after going through these examples, they got it completely.<\/p>\n<p>After that first conversation, I told them I would start pointing out good and bad logic when I saw it. I invited them to do the same.<\/p>\n<h3><span data-redactor-tag=\"strong\">The results<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Far from being a one-off conversation that was quickly forgotten, this little logic lesson has totally transformed my kids\u2019 thinking in a matter of a couple of weeks.<\/p>\n<p>They ask me in the car for \u201clogic problems\u201d every day. They call each other out on bad logic as soon as it happens (even my 4-year-old can spot it!). They\u2019ve used a lot less bad logic because they now know they\u2019ll be held accountable as soon as someone in the house hears it (and, so far, no one has gotten upset about that).<\/p>\n<p>Here are five examples of how they\u2019ve called each other out this week, with no prompting from me.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>My son couldn\u2019t find his shoes the other day. He moaned, \u201cUuugggh. I can\u2019t find them. They\u2019re not in the house.\u201d My daughter yelled from the other room, \u201cBad logic! Just because you can\u2019t find your shoes doesn\u2019t mean they aren\u2019t anywhere in the house. It just means you don\u2019t know where they are right now.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>My older daughter scribbled on my younger daughter\u2019s art work. When I asked her why she did it, she said, \u201cBecause she did it to me. That means I can do it to her.\u201d Both my younger daughter and son were standing there and, in unison, yelled out, \u201cBad logic!\u201d<\/li>\n<li>My daughter saw a girl at school throw something at another girl. She said she now knows that girl \u201cis mean.\u201d Before I could even answer, my son said, \u201cBut that\u2019s bad logic. We\u2019re all sinners and even Christians do bad things sometimes. It doesn\u2019t mean she is always a mean person. If she\u2019s a Christian, she\u2019ll want to ask for God\u2019s help on that.\u201d (I must admit I was especially proud of my 6-year-old son for being able to verbalize that!)<\/li>\n<li>My twins got a birthday present that my 4-year-old really wanted to use. They told her no, but she used it anyway. When I gave her a consequence, she wailed, \u201cBut I really, really, really wanted to use it, and they said no!\u201d My older daughter quickly informed her, \u201cThat\u2019s bad logic. Just because you want to do something doesn\u2019t make it the right thing to do.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>My daughter got a math problem wrong on her homework. She answered that 5+2=8. When I told her it was wrong, she defensively said, \u201cBut I saw people in class write different answers. Some wrote 6, some wrote 7, some wrote 8.\u201d My son caught her quickly. He said, \u201cThat\u2019s bad logic! Just because people put different answers doesn\u2019t mean one answer isn\u2019t the right one.\u201d (Yes, this really happened. I didn\u2019t encourage it in order to have a good ending for this blog post, given the bad logic from the commenter I quoted at the beginning.)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Exactly. If only more adults understood that last one.<\/p>\n<p><em>This post is used with permission from Christian Apologist Natasha Crain. You can access more great posts like this one by visiting her blog\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/christianmomthoughts.com\/are-christians-less-intelligent-than-atheists-heres-what-all-those-studies-really-say\/\">ChristianMomThoughts.com<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, someone left the following comment on my blog post, &#8220;How Secular Family Values Stack &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/apologetics\/resource\/how-im-teaching-my-6yearolds-to-be-critical-thinkers\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How I\u2019m Teaching My 6-year-olds to Be Critical Thinkers<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":2398,"template":"","meta":{"_oasis_is_in_workflow":0,"_oasis_original":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}}},"tags":[],"channels":[],"topics":[9,10],"languages":[],"class_list":["post-1537","resource","type-resource","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","resource_type-article","topics-apologetics","topics-god"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v24.0 (Yoast SEO v24.0) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How I\u2019m Teaching My 6-year-olds to Be Critical Thinkers - Apologetics<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/apologetics\/resource\/how-im-teaching-my-6yearolds-to-be-critical-thinkers\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How I\u2019m Teaching My 6-year-olds to Be Critical Thinkers\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Last week, someone left the following comment on my blog post, &#8220;How Secular Family Values Stack &hellip; 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