{"id":13173,"date":"2023-02-17T05:00:19","date_gmt":"2023-02-17T10:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/church-replanting\/?post_type=resource&#038;p=13173"},"modified":"2023-02-16T11:39:13","modified_gmt":"2023-02-16T16:39:13","slug":"how-does-a-pastor-respond-to-when-is-my-child-ready-for-baptism","status":"publish","type":"resource","link":"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/church-replanting\/resource\/how-does-a-pastor-respond-to-when-is-my-child-ready-for-baptism\/","title":{"rendered":"How Does a Pastor Respond To: \u2018When is My Child Ready for Baptism?\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWhen is my child ready for baptism?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is a great question and one I have been asked many times over the years in ministry. The bottom line is that everywhere Jesus went, He was preaching the gospel and calling individuals to &#8220;repent, believe and be baptized.&#8221; This is the proper response of a person \u2013 adult or child \u2013 whose heart and mind has been made new by grace, through Christ and His Spirit. Repent, believe, be baptized.<\/p>\n<p>The question is, however, how we know if a child is ready. How do we know if a child is truly regenerated \u2013 has genuinely surrendered to Christ in heart, mind and will \u2013 and is therefore now ready to be baptized? Practically, we as pastors, along with a child&#8217;s parents, need to do all we can to discern whether true repentance and faith is present in this child.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the four big questions that guide me as I help the child and their parents in this process. (I use these 4 questions in assessing the readiness of an adult for baptism as well.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Is there knowledge?<\/strong> Does this child have a right and proper knowledge and understanding of the gospel of Jesus Christ and of baptism? Can they articulate this?<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Is there brokenness?<\/strong> Has this child been truly broken over their sin and not just the consequences of their sin? Are they heartbroken over the fact they have sinned against a holy God and now realize Jesus alone can save them?<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Is there repentance?<\/strong> Does this child desire to repent, or turn, from their sin and toward Christ by faith? Does their brokenness over sin lead to active repentance and faith in Christ?<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Is there a treasuring?<\/strong> Does this child see and savor Jesus as the greatest treasure of their life?<\/p>\n<p>Typically, these four questions help the child, the parents and me discern whether the child is ready for baptism. Many times, after I ask these, parents are like, &#8220;Yes, we have seen not only knowledge, but authentic brokenness and repentance in Cindy.&#8221; Or &#8220;Oh no, we have never seen Timothy broken and repentant over his sin, though he definitely has knowledge of the gospel and can articulate it.&#8221; Or, &#8220;I would not say Max truly treasures Jesus at this point in his life.&#8221; If it seems questionable whether a young person is ready to be baptized, I simply encourage parents to wait until they see more evidence and fruit of regeneration.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, we as pastors do the best we can. Sometimes it is a tough call and, in those cases, if the child&#8217;s parents are mature Christ-followers, I often will take the lead from them. If it is difficult for me to discern one way or another, I usually will trust the parents since, ultimately, they are the spiritual shepherds of their kids.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWhen is my child ready for baptism?\u201d This is a great question and one I have &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.namb.net\/church-replanting\/resource\/how-does-a-pastor-respond-to-when-is-my-child-ready-for-baptism\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How Does a Pastor Respond To: \u2018When is My Child Ready for Baptism?\u2019<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":13174,"template":"","meta":{"_oasis_is_in_workflow":0,"_oasis_original":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}}},"tags":[],"channels":[],"topics":[53],"languages":[],"class_list":["post-13173","resource","type-resource","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","resource_type-article","topics-replanting"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v24.0 (Yoast SEO v24.0) - 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