Kathy Litton, NAMB’s national consultant for ministry to pastor’s wives, hosted the panel consisting of Pam Wolfe, Angie Lewis, Gala Andrews and Cindy Lake—all of whom shared on their experience in the role of church planter’s wife.
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Kathy Litton, NAMB’s national consultant for ministry to pastor’s wives, hosted the panel consisting of Pam Wolfe, Angie Lewis, Gala Andrews and Cindy Lake—all of whom shared on their experience in the role of church planter’s wife.
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Christine talks with Mandy Post, who moved with her husband Jason from Texas to Galway, Ireland in 2003 to plant a church. They have four children together, all of whom were born in Ireland, and they’ve served long-term there, growing and building a church, as well as growing as Christians and as cross-cultural workers. Mandy shares about how they were called overseas, what "home" means to her now, how she shares her faith with her friends, what she sees her kids experiencing as third-culture kids, and how God has helped her endure when she’s wanted to quit and pack her bags.
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Christine talks with Natarsha Roberson, a church planting wife in Brooklyn, NY. Natarsha puts words to the church planting experience and shares specifically about boundaries: what are important boundaries for us to have? What do we do when church members push back on boundaries we've set? What are important boundaries for us to have as couples? And how do we draw boundaries that protect our children?
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The Bridge Church in Brooklyn
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Christine talks with Caron Loveless. When Caron’s husband was the pastor of a large church in Florida, he had an affair with a woman who worked on staff with him. Caron joins Christine today to tell her story, what she’s learned in the years since the affair came to light, and what she’d want pastors and pastors’ wives to know about being in ministry without losing your soul and imploding your life.
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The Glass House podcast episode with David & Caron // The Loveless' Ministry // First Baptist Orlando // Torn Asunder // Nothing to Prove // Live True Podcast
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Christine talks with Kaye Geiger, whose husband Eric is the lead pastor at Mariner’s Church in Orange County, California. Kaye has a deep passion for pastors’ wives and pastors’ kids and shares why unity and friendship among pastors' and elders' wives on the same church staff is are so important. Aside from sharing what she does to serve and connect pastors' wives and kids at her church, she addresses:
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Christine talks with Susanne Rodriquez about two topics that rarely get addressed in resources for pastors’ wives: bi-vocational ministry and closing a church plant. Susanne and her husband planted a church in New Jersey around 2014, reaching an immigrant population in their neighborhood. Just before Covid hit, they made the difficult decision to close the church.
In this conversation, Susanne shares about the tensions for her and her husband as he pastored bi-vocationally and what she learned about how to support and help and sometimes challenge her husband during that time. She gives voice to the church planting wife’s experience, like knowing the fine line of when to press for what you need from your husband and when to wait, entrusting yourself to the Lord. In the end, she shares about the disappointment she felt after closing their church and about what success is for those in vocational ministry.
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By Faith is back for Season 10 with the theme of vocational ministry. In this episode, Christine is joined by her husband Kyle and, together, they talk about what they've learned in the past few years about disordered priorities and idolatry, leading to idolatry and an unhealthy marriage dynamic. This is the personal side of ministry, and it's something that every couple in ministry needs to be cautious and intentional about. Grab your spouse and listen together!
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The Hoover's church // How We Love // Reengage // The Church Planting Wife // How to Thrive as a Pastor's Wife (book) // How to Thrive as a Pastor's Wife (website)
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Christine shares one of her favorite episodes from Season 5: her conversation with Garrett Kell, who details his dramatic conversion while a student at Virginia Tech and how the gospel changed him and those around him. Garrett then shares about his first years as a pastor and how he hid a secret sin from people in his life. God, in his goodness, brought his sin into the light and the way he did it changed Garrett forever.
Please note: this episode is not suitable for the listening ears of children.
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Del Ray Baptist Church // Romans 2:4 // Ezekiel 38
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I Was a Pastor Hooked on Porn
When God Chased Me
Finding Forgiveness After My Abortion
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Christine chats with Denisse Cabrera about her life and ministry as a church planting wife. Denisse and her husband Felix planted a church in Oklahoma, but after Hurricane Maria hit their native Puerto Rico in 2018, they knew God was calling them home to minister to their fellow Puerto Ricans and meet the many needs generated by the hurricane.
Denisse shares about the joys and challenges of church planting and why, she says, being obedient to God's will isn't always a joyful ride. She gives us insight on how we can pursue contentment in obeying God's will even when it's difficult.
Step into the shoes of a church planting wife and be encouraged!
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Christine talks with Kayla Stoecklein about her husband Andrew's death by suicide. Kayla shares about Andrew's battle with mental illness, how it affected their marriage and small children, and how it affected his job as pastor of a megachurch. Suicide is a subject we so rarely talk openly about, but Kayla decided immediately upon Andrew's death to talk about it. In this conversation, Kayla not only shares her grief, but she also shares how we can support our pastors, what she wants us to understand about suicide, and what she'd say to those who are caring for others with mental illness. Though this is a difficult topic, it's such an important one, and Kayla's bravely written a new book detailing Andrew's story called Fear Gone Wild.
If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please call the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.
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Kayla's new book, Fear Gone Wild // Andrew's "Hot Mess" talks // Leading on Empty by Wayne Cordeiro
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In this episode, Christine talks with pastor's wife, mom, and grandmother, Karen Loritts about life, marriage, and ministry that spans many decades. With all her experience in life, she has much wisdom to share. Listen as Christine asks her what has helped her endure, what her thoughts are as an African American woman regarding the big picture of race in America, and what she has done in marriage to make it almost 50 years.
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Pine Cove // Weep With Me // Color of Compromise // One Race // Be The Bridge
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Christine talks with Dr. Grace English. Grace shares her experience with having an abortion as a college student and how that abortion continued to haunt her into her marriage and motherhood, which she now knows to be post-abortion trauma. She shares what made her decide to tell someone, how she came to understand Christ’s forgiveness for the abortion, and what she wants Christians to know about the many men and women in our lives who have been affected by abortion. At the end, she also speaks to those who are listening who’ve had an abortion, so if that’s you, listen all the way to the end to hear Grace’s words to you.
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Grace's ministry, CARE // Surrendering the Secret Bible Study // Men Hurt Too // Forgiven and Set Free
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Christine talks with Callie Nixon, director of women’s ministry teams at Watermark Church in Dallas, Texas. She’s married to Ryan, who also works at Watermark, and together they have three kids. Callie shares about her 10 year addiction to lust and masturbation. She shares how it became a hidden sin for all those years and why she finally told a friend during college. Callie shares how she continues to fight against temptation to this day, how her sexual sin has affected her marriage, and what she’d say to women who are struggling privately with shame over lust, masturbation, or any sexual sin.
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Watermark Church // Reengage // Regeneration
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Christine talks with Amie Patrick, wife of Darrin and mom of four. Darrin and Amie planted The Journey in St. Louis in 2002 and the church exploded in growth almost immediately. Darrin and Amie set off on a frenetic pace, which you’ll hear about in our conversation today. However, In 2016, Amie’s world fell apart when her husband was confronted about an emotional affair and the elders of the church fired Darrin from his role as Lead Pastor. Amie shares in our conversation today about what happened, what patterns she’d warn us all about, and why the lack of emotional health was such a key component of not only their life’s implosion but how their increasing emotional health has been so important in their current rebuilding.
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Amie's TGC Body Image Talk // Seacoast Church // The Journey Church // The Church Planting Wife book // Strong and Weak by Andy Crouch // Crosspoint Ministry // The Relational Soul book // James 1
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Christine sits down with Olga Zapolska to hear her story of watching her home nation, the Soviet Union, dissolve, and how she met Christ after coming out of a communist country. Olga then shares about getting the phone call every mother never hopes to get, a phone call where she learned her son had been killed by a drunk driver. Olga shares how God was near to her even as she was thousands of miles away from her son, how he provided miraculously for her family, and how she is learning to choose love rather than fear. She also shares what she said to the man who killed her son in her victim impact statement–a lesson to all of us in forgiveness that only God can author.
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Christine is joined by Garrett Kell, who details his dramatic conversion while a student at Virginia Tech and how the gospel changed him and those around him. Garrett then shares about his first years as a pastor and how he hid a secret sin from people in his life. God, in his goodness, brought his sin into the light and the way he did it changed Garrett forever.
Please note: this episode is not suitable for children's listening ears.
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Del Ray Baptist Church // Romans 2:4 // Ezekiel 38
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I Was a Pastor Hooked on Porn
When God Chased Me
Finding Forgiveness After My Abortion
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Christine is joined by her husband Kyle and together they answer your questions about the podcast season, church planting, ministry, and parenting. Questions answered include:
And a few more…
Christine also shares what's coming in Season 5 of the podcast!
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Friendship Bible study and reading guide // Friendship Leader's Guide // Come find me on Instagram and let me know what was your favorite moment of Season 4! // Numbers 13-14 // Christine's Patreon page
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Carolyn McCulley joins Christine to talk about women and work, how we don’t often within the church talk about the entire arc of a woman’s life, and how this hinders our understanding of biblical womanhood. Carolyn also shares about being single in the church and gives us some super practical things we can all do to cultivate community for our single friends, as well as how we can encourage singles to use their gifts within the church.
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Carolyn's book The Measure of Success // Carolyn's other books // City Gate Films // Ian & Larissa's documentary // Babylon Bee
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Christine chats with Anna Perez about church planting in NYC alongside her husband Rich. Anna shares how, as she says, God has worked out her obedience specifically through church planting. She touches on comparison, trying to fit herself into a cookie cutter formula of what she thought she should do, and how she's come to embrace the calling not just as her husband's but also as her own.
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Christ Crucified Fellowship in Manhattan // Rich Perez's book, Mi Casa Uptown // My book, The Church Planting Wife
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Christine talks with pastor Greg Gilbert about how we can discover grace, let go of guilt, and rest with great assurance in our salvation. He helps us discover the why behind our service and what it means to actually serve by faith rather than from a place of guilt.
This is a gospel-rich episode! Christine and Greg cover everything from doubting our salvation, wondering if we've committed what the Bible says is the unpardonable sin, worries about losing our salvation, and finding ourselves driven more by "shoulds" than the actual gospel.
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Third Avenue Baptist // Assured // What is the Gospel? // Greg's other books
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Christine welcomes podcaster and author Jamie Ivey to the show to talk about insecurity and how it affects friendship, how friendship has been hard for Jamie, how we can help the men in our lives prioritize friendship, and how Jamie is helping her kids navigate relationships with their peers.
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Christine and her husband Kyle answer listeners' questions about the hurts and hangups in ministry: how to respond to criticism, how to respond when people leave the church, dealing with private hurts, and finding time to rest.
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Christine is joined by Katie Orr to discuss how pastor's wives can make friends inside and outside the church, including how we tend to hinder ourselves unknowingly, and what we can share (and what we can't) and how to do so wisely.
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The Orr's Church // Katie's Books // Lori Frank's article, "What I Wish I'd Known About Friendship"
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Christine is joined by Kirstie Dates, who shares about the joys and challenges of being a pastor's wife, including how she's learned to say no, what she'd say to women who are new to ministry, and what her mentor told her that's stuck with and helped her in her role.
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Preacher Monday // Charlie Dates' sermon at MLK50 // Progressive Baptist Church
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Welcome to a special mini-season designed specifically for women in ministry! In today's episode, I share some foundational truths that have challenged, convicted, settled, and sustained me in my own ministry. They’ve become truths I repeat back to myself and often share with other women in ministry. May they help and encourage you!
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Christine talks with wife, mom, and grandmother BJ Garrett about her experience with sexual abuse, sexual sin, and abortion. She also shares about how she came to understand who God is, how she finally embraced His forgiveness, what she’d want women to know who have chosen abortion for themselves, and what she'd want those to know who haven't.
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