How to Lead the “Unique” Kid: Discipleship When It’s Difficult or Disruptive

Show Notes

In Episode 4 of Season 6 of The GenSend Podcast, Shane and Kasi Pruitt join cohosts Paul Worcester and Lacey Villasenor to talk about leading “the unique kids,” the ones who don’t always fit the mold. Gain biblical wisdom and practical insight to shepherd every student with patience and purpose. Hear stories of transformation and learn how to see disruptive or quirky students the way God does: as image bearers with potential for kingdom impact. Be encouraged to fight against the instinct to pull away from chaotic situations and instead see them redeemed into powerful ministry moments.

Also in This Episode:

Learn to redefine success by laying down the idol of a perfectly polished ministry and embracing a messy but meaningful ministry.
Discover how to create space for every personality where quirky, loud, or “extra” kids can belong and contribute.
Explore how to set the tone for your leaders, building a culture where gossip or sarcasm about students cannot exist.
Consider how to channel disruptive energy into leadership, giving high-energy students ownership and responsibility.
Find strategies to diversify your leadership team by recruiting volunteers of all ages and backgrounds to connect with every kind of student.

Helpful Resources:

Youth Leader Coaching Network

GenSend Resources for Leaders

GenSend on Instagram and YouTube

★ Find more resources to lead the next generation on mission at https://GenSend.org

★ Subscribe to The GenSend Podcast on your favorite podcast platform

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Shareable Quotes:

“Some of the hardest kids in ministry end up being the ones who make such a difference for the kingdom.” —Kasi Pruitt

“Jesus was constantly interrupted, and He welcomed it.” —Shane Pruitt 

“Put the unique kids on your prayer list and give them a place to serve.” —Paul Worcester

“The most important thing is that they matter to God. So, how do we shepherd them really well?—Lacey Villasenor

Published October 21, 2025

How to Lead the “Unique” Kid: Discipleship When It’s Difficult or Disruptive

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